Harmony at home - crucial for family development
Harmony at home is a crucial
factor if the members of the family wish its development collectively and
individually. If the purpose of the family unit is to reproduce, bring up,
educate, share and care the off springs, nothing of these could be successful
if it loses harmony within. If the home life is a troubled or confused one, in
consequence the same would be reflected in the work he does. No self or family
development is possible if there is discord and disharmony at home. Harmony
between father and mother, parents and off springs and among siblings should
prevail in abundance for the development of the family.
Misconception or misunderstanding,
lack of communication, forgetting and negligence of individual responsibilities
towards each other, selfishness, lack of patience and lack of love are some of
the causes for the discord and disharmony at home. Everybody in the family
should be aware of his or her duties and responsibilities towards the other.
Even Little children should be assigned some of the suitable responsibilities
of the family. Expenditures should be according to the revenue. What is
expected from one should not be beyond his capacity. In male dominated
societies, attempt to reverse the position from father to mother would result
in discord and disharmony in the family.
When there is no harmony in the
family, in spite of the development, one can see the deterioration in the every
aspect of the family. Frequent quarreling between husband and wife, hindrance
to children’s education , scattered family situation, children becoming victims
of the bad society, getting addicted to
drugs and alcohol by father and male children of the family, prostitution are
some of the bad consequences of the discord and disharmony of the family.
When husband respect the rights
of wife and children of the family and when he understands and fulfils his
responsibilities for them and when wife also does her part understanding and
respecting rights of others in the family, happiness begins to prevail. Children
will be happy and they will continue their education successfully and their
future will be secured. When there is peace in the family, they have good
chance of doing their businesses and their jobs well and thereby their revenues
also will increase. When the harmony prevails in the family, the mental and
physical health of the members of the family will become favorable. Therefore in
conclusion, if a family wishes its development all the members should act in a
way that preserve the harmony and peace of it.
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